Village Voice - May,
2005
Notes from Hailey's Mom
Before
you were born I loved you,
Before
you were here an hour, I would die for you,
This
is the miracle of life.”
-- Maureen Hawkins
Ever since I was
little, I dreamed of having a family: a
caring husband and two children. Now, at
thirty-eight, I think, “Wow, I am finally a mom!” It
was a long wait. I gave birth to our
wonderful daughter,
Hailey Nicole, on November 30th, 2004, and Darian and I celebrate our
fourth wedding
anniversary this July 7th. I am blessed
to have a loving husband and a wonderful little girl.
I love being Hailey's
mom and I enjoy staying home with
her. When Darian and I started
contemplating having children, we realized that children and grad
school would
most likely coincide. We were unsure how
we would manage financially; yet God has provided and keeps on
providing. Many people gave us presents in
anticipation
of Hailey's arrival. Our church in
Words cannot
adequately describe how blessed I feel to
have a baby. I identify with my favorite author, Anne Lamott when she
wrote,
“...one thing about having a baby, is that each step of the way, you
simply
cannot imagine loving him any more than you already do, because you are
bursting with love, loving as much as you are humanly capable of, and
then you
do; you love him even more.”
Now that I have
Hailey, I understand why my mom (my dad
too) loves me so much and why she often worried about me.
Having a child is like having the most
precious, wonderful treasure. I love
Hailey so deeply it almost hurts. I want to do everything within my
power to
ensure she grows up to be happy and healthy.
When I have Hailey in the car, I am super vigilant.
When a driver gets too close, because he is
chatting on his/her cell phone or drinking his/her coffee, I want to
scream,
“Be careful! I have extremely, precious, cargo on board, Hailey Boggs,
my amazing
daughter.”
God must have created
babies to amaze us and put us in a
state of awe. I am still amazed that
Hailey came out of me and that my body is now back to normal. I am amazed that she came out complete, from
her little head covered in slick, auburn hair, to her tiny blue feet. I am amazed, that from day one she smiled at
us. I am amazed that she even smiled at
us on day four when readmitted to the hospital, her tiny arm attached
to an IV
and her little six pound body placed in an incubator under fluorescent
lights.
I am amazed that my body provides Hailey with the only food she needs
and that
at four months she is already wearing some clothes in the six-month
size. I am amazed that she belongs to me
and I to
her.
Thank you, God, for
the gift of babies, who are all
amazing and special. Thank you, God, for creating mothers to bring us
into the
world, to love and care for us with all their hearts.
Happy Mother's Day!
--Rebecca
Boggs
FROM THE PASTOR
We had a guest preacher from
Church consultant Herb Miller notes that for
worship to
remain relevant churches must experience four transitions.
When I became pastor of Village in 1985, we had one Sunday morning worship service each week at 11:00 a.m.. The worship musical style was traditional, featuring hymns, some gospel songs, anthems, and classical music. It wasn’t as formal as some churches, but we were accompanied by organ and piano, we sang the Doxology after we received the offering, and the adult choir sang responses (such as a call to worship, choral amen, and benediction). Although we have made some minor modifications over the years, that traditional style has remained largely unchanged at the 11:00 a.m. worship service. If anything, it has become slightly more formal with the addition of choir robes a few years ago.
About five years after I came as pastor, some members of our congregation began to push for a different style of worship. They wanted to sing more contemporary music; and they wanted a more informal atmosphere. After much research and planning, we began to offer a contemporary early service on Sunday mornings, in addition to the traditional 11:00 a.m. service. The early service is different. We sing contemporary praise songs accompanied by a synthesizer and praise ensemble. Sometimes people clap to the music. The words to the songs are projected on a screen, and sometimes there are slide shows before the service or visuals to illustrate the announcements. Some people may be more casually dressed at the early service than worshippers at the later service.
I like both of our Sunday morning worship services. I enjoy singing the great hymns of the faith. I thrill to the organ and piano. The music of Bach may be three centuries old, but there’s a reason we call it “classical.” I can relate to the reverential, meditative style of traditional worship. At the same time, I have come to appreciate more contemporary songs and praise choruses. The upbeat, celebrative style of music has me tapping my feet and singing with gusto. I like the warm, friendly “come as you are” atmosphere of contemporary worship.
Every Sunday during the school year I get the best of both worlds because I lead worship at both the contemporary and the traditional services. During the summer months, everyone has an opportunity to experience both styles of worship because we have one combined blended service, beginning at 10:00 a.m. This year we begin our blended, one-service format on Picnic Sunday, June 5. That’s a change from previous years when we observed our summer schedule only in July and August. So, there will be more opportunities to worship together this summer, to get to know one another better, and to experience some different styles of music and worship formats. Remember: the one-service schedule begins in June and continues throughout the summer. Until then, please join us at 8:30 a.m. or 11:00 a.m. for worship.